It's so unfortunate when your partner is stressed and there's nothing you can do, but it also seems like there's nothing they want to do about it either. 

As someone who really actively tries not to take on other people's burdens, this revolving door of bad moods about work stuff is really fucking exhausting. And on top of his stress, I'm dealing with burnout from my own job. 

I hate how often I feel like my whole life could upend at any moment because of a bad mood.